About Osloda Continued from home page
We’re talking root cause here. Root cause change to make it real, to change your life, to change you. We’re providing tools to make such deep change in yourself that what is possible will change. You can make your life better in ways you didn’t believe were possible. On your terms.
Here’s an example.
A young child seeks comfort from a parent. That parent may be tired, or preoccupied, or busy. Either the child does not get the attention they seek, or the attention given is not emotionally caring. This is the reality of people being human. Parents are not perfect. Two things can happen. The child may form a subconscious association between seeking comfort and feeling pain, or the child may form a subconscious association between being comforted and feeling pain. Either way, there is an association at the subconscious level that links comfort with pain.
Thus at the subconscious level, a program is formed. When the person seeks comfort, they will subconsciously require pain to complete the program. That pain may be provided with self-destructive thoughts or behaviors. A person seeking comfort through food can provide the pain by feeling terrible guilt and providing self-judgment. A person seeking comfort in interaction with others can provide the pain by sending subliminal signals to the other people requiring that they provide rejection, judgment, neglect, or insincerity. Can you imagine the implications in addictions? What does that do to the person’s ability to enjoy life, and to meet their own needs? What are the implications in their relationships?
Real change happens when these subconscious programs are changed, to allow comfort and love without any pain association. Breaking free of these subconscious programs opens your capacity for great relationships and happiness. Osloda toolsets put the power in your hands to open your capacity for happiness and change what is possible for you and your life.
What can be different is much more than what you think.